Boyfriend won’t commit despite being pregnant for him
Dear April, So I’ve been talking with a guy for about 6 months. We are both in the process of divorce. His will be final in two months, mine in four. The divorces were in the works prior to us talking. So anyway, we have hooked up a few times early on, but for the […]
Messy Love Triangle
Dear April, My fiancé and I have been together for six years. We own a house together and live together. But six months ago, I began having doubts about our long-term compatibility. See, I love discussing big issues: religion and politics. He can’t stand it. I’m deeply spiritual; he’s firmly agnostic. I crave affection; he […]
Feeling Lonely While Married
Dear April, I’m 31, and married the love of my life in June after dating him for 2 years. He is a wonderful man I met three years ago at work. He works the day shift, and I work the night shift. He works all day and then goes hunting. He loves to hunt. He […]
Boyfriend in Secret Contact with His Ex
Dear April, I’m in an 18 month relationship with this amazing guy, but something keeps bugging me — his ex. The girl he was dating before me for six months (it wasn’t a real relationship, more a have sex and hang out relationship) is everything you don’t want your boyfriend’s ex to be. She is […]
Sex is Complicating My Relationship
Dear April, I’m not against commitments, and have had proper relationships, but because of how my life is at the moment I felt that a casual relationship would suit me. I’m very busy and have a lot of responsibilities. So, I connected with someone on a dating website who apparently wants the same thing as […]
Richer Than My Boyfriend
Dear April, I am in my late 30’s, divorced with 2 children. I am independent, own my own house, car and pay all my bills alone. I am a professional and have a great career. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 2 years now. He also has 2 children of his […]
Lied About My Age
Dear April, I met a wonderful man after years of jerks. He’s mature and successful. Our chemistry was magnetic and we had a strong physical and mental attraction. He bragged about me being a good catch and he always mentioned how intelligent and attractive I was. The problem is that I was dishonest about my […]
Date Ghosted, Now Freaking Out About Aids.
Dear April, I met a guy online. He is handsome and rough around the edges, kind of hostile, aggressive and almost demeaning in the way he spoke and expressed himself. He lives in Atlanta, I in Tampa. He told me to Google him, and I saw he is married, but I gave him the benefit […]
Husband Addicted To Sex
Dear April, We have been married 20, and even though we’re both only 41 my hubby needs Viagra. Recently he ordered 24 of these pills and even though we have only used about 5 of them together, after three months, there are only 3 of them left. Apparently he is using them for himself. I […]
Got Caught Cheating. Can I Fix This?
Dear April, I live with my boyfriend of 5 years. We have raised my 4 year old daughter from an affair, and are about to have a child of our own. I am 7 months pregnant, but when I was 5 months along I cheated. He found out through an email conversation between myself and […]