No More Sex in My Marriage

Dear April, I’ve been married for 10 years and in the last 4 my husband stopped having sex or any type of intimacy and we now sleep in separate bedrooms. I love him but I feel that part of our life is over. He is the one who is no longer interested as he has […]

Caught Boyfriend on Dating Site

Dear April, I need help making a decision about a guy I’m dating. We met online. After a couple of months he declared that he wanted to be exclusive. I agreed. I obviously put my online account on the back burner . So when I happen to see my boyfriend still active online and chatting […]

Love, Jealousy, Regret, and Healing

Dear April, I’ve known this guy since we were teenagers, and he was always the “nice guy” and that turned me off. I got married to someone else and had three daughters, and when we  divorced, he and I started dating. We were together for eight and a half months when I did the unthinkable. […]

Intense Chemistry, Uncertain Future

Dear April, I’m 44, have been divorced 3 years and have 2 young boys. I met a man from work who is over 10 years younger than me. We were drunk at a sales meeting — we’ve had the most insanely awesome time together, every minute we were together. I’ve NEVER had the sexual chemistry […]

Messy Love Triangle

Dear April, My boyfriend and I started dating about eight months ago. At that time I was separated from my husband and he had a girlfriend for about 10 years. I divorced my husband so that I can be with this man. We started sleeping together at the workplace after he gave me some advice […]

Love Life is Stuck Because of his Divorce

Dear April, I’ve been in a 4-year relationship. We love each other very much however there are some barriers that are preventing us from moving forward. He is still legally married although they’ve been separated 15 years. His ex lives on the same street with the kids, ages 18 & 20.   The younger one […]

Bride of a Blended Family

Dear April, I am getting married for the first time to a man who’s already had one wedding and three kids. I have one son who is eleven. The wedding is going to be small (under 50 guests) and set to a rustic wooded scene at my family’s home. The one catch is I’m having […]

Confess my Feelings or Ghost

Dear April, I met up with an old flame from years ago. We’re both in our 40s. He was reeling from a break-up, I was getting over a divorce and it was just so nice to see an old friend that was “safe” and I had history with. Since we were long distance (NY/Dallas) we […]

Husband Obsessed with Work

Dear April, ’ve been married for 5 years, together for 10, and when my husband got a job promotion, I quit my job to be home with the kids, since what I made literally just paid the sitter. But now, he works 7 am to 10 pm everyday except for one day a week — […]

Boyfriend is Lazy and not Putting in Effort

Dear April, I’ve been dating this guy for about six months now, and we’ve been sleeping together for the last three months. He never initiates anything – dates, sex (he blames his age, 47), dinner with him and his daughter – but always seems interested when I initiate it. He also never gives me compliments […]