No More Sex in My Marriage

Dear April, I’ve been married for 10 years and in the last 4 my husband stopped having sex or any type of intimacy and we now sleep in separate bedrooms. I love him but I feel that part of our life is over. He is the one who is no longer interested as he has […]

Caught Boyfriend on Dating Site

Dear April, I need help making a decision about a guy I’m dating. We met online. After a couple of months he declared that he wanted to be exclusive. I agreed. I obviously put my online account on the back burner . So when I happen to see my boyfriend still active online and chatting […]

Love, Jealousy, Regret, and Healing

Dear April, I’ve known this guy since we were teenagers, and he was always the “nice guy” and that turned me off. I got married to someone else and had three daughters, and when we  divorced, he and I started dating. We were together for eight and a half months when I did the unthinkable. […]

Intense Chemistry, Uncertain Future

Dear April, I’m 44, have been divorced 3 years and have 2 young boys. I met a man from work who is over 10 years younger than me. We were drunk at a sales meeting — we’ve had the most insanely awesome time together, every minute we were together. I’ve NEVER had the sexual chemistry […]

Confess my Feelings or Ghost

Dear April, I met up with an old flame from years ago. We’re both in our 40s. He was reeling from a break-up, I was getting over a divorce and it was just so nice to see an old friend that was “safe” and I had history with. Since we were long distance (NY/Dallas) we […]

Boyfriend won’t commit despite being pregnant for him

Dear April, So I’ve been talking with a guy for about 6 months. We are both in the process of divorce. His will be final in two months, mine in four. The divorces were in the works prior to us talking. So anyway, we have hooked up a few times early on, but for the […]

Messy Love Triangle

Dear April, My fiancé and I have been together for six years. We own a house together and live together. But six months ago, I began having doubts about our long-term compatibility. See, I love discussing big issues: religion and politics. He can’t stand it. I’m deeply spiritual; he’s firmly agnostic. I crave affection; he […]

Feeling Lonely While Married

Dear April, I’m 31, and married the love of my life in June after dating him for 2 years. He is a wonderful man I met three years ago at work. He works the day shift, and I work the night shift. He works all day and then goes hunting. He loves to hunt. He […]

Boyfriend in Secret Contact with His Ex

Dear April, I’m in an 18 month relationship with this amazing guy, but something keeps bugging me — his ex. The girl he was dating before me for six months (it wasn’t a real relationship, more a have sex and hang out relationship) is everything you don’t want your boyfriend’s ex to be. She is […]

Lied About My Age

Dear April, I met a wonderful man after years of jerks. He’s mature and successful. Our chemistry was magnetic and we had a strong physical and mental attraction. He bragged about me being a good catch and he always mentioned how intelligent and attractive I was. The problem is that I was dishonest about my […]